{"id":347640,"date":"2018-02-10T13:59:34","date_gmt":"2018-02-10T12:59:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/newswire\/timesup-for-john-kelly-and-for-toxic-masculinity-in-trumps-white-house-by-will-bunch\/"},"modified":"2018-02-10T13:59:34","modified_gmt":"2018-02-10T12:59:34","slug":"timesup-for-john-kelly-and-for-toxic-masculinity-in-trumps-white-house-by-will-bunch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/newswire\/timesup-for-john-kelly-and-for-toxic-masculinity-in-trumps-white-house-by-will-bunch\/","title":{"rendered":"#TimesUp For John Kelly, And For Toxic Masculinity In Trump&#8217;s White House | By Will Bunch"},"content":{"rendered":"<div itemprop=\"articleBody\"><meta itemprop=\"image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.commondreams.org\/sites\/default\/files\/views-article\/thumbs\/johnkelly.jpeg\"\/><meta itemprop=\"wordCount\" content=\"1402\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Just 14 months ago, both of the women who\u2019d once been married to Rob Porter got horrifying Facebook messages and texts from a third woman who said she was now dating Porter \u2014 a top GOP Capitol Hill aide on a path toward the Trump White House \u2014 and wanted to talk to them about \u201crepeated abuse\u201d in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI work in politics, and despite Rob\u2019s repeated abuse,<strong><em> some of which I think many know about,<\/em> <em>he continues to rise<\/em><\/strong> and I\u2019m afraid to go against him,\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2018\/02\/07\/politics\/rob-porter-ex-wives-white-house\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\">the woman wrote in a December 2016 message to Porter\u2019s first wife, Colbie Holderness, viewed and reported on Wednesday by CNN<\/a> (emphasis mine).\u00a0\u201cI\u2019m sorry to bother you. I wanted to reach out and hear your story if you are willing to share \u2014 as well as how you broke out of it with him and mostly, how you recovered.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"pullquote\">&#8220;They knew, and when <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-5365169\/Woman-living-Hope-Hicks-lover-Rob-Porter-abused.html\" target=\"_blank\">journalists from the Daily Mail<\/a> and then <a href=\"https:\/\/theintercept.com\/2018\/02\/07\/rob-porter-wives-abuse-trump-aide\/\" target=\"_blank\">other news orgs<\/a> began calling, their first response was practically Nixonian in their desire to stonewall, lie, cover up, and pray that the story would somehow go away.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The message was hardly a surprise to either woman. Porter\u2019s second ex-wife, Jennifer Willoughby, has since told reporters that he began calling her a \u201c(bleep)ing bitch\u201d on their honeymoon, mainly because she didn\u2019t have sex with him often enough, and when they were separated in 2010 she went to court and obtained a protective order after Porter put his hand through a glass door pane looking for her. Holderness told a similar story, punctuated by an incident in 2005 on a vacation in Florence, Italy, when Porter allegedly struck her in the face and gave her a black eye \u2014 which she then made him photograph.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\" xml:lang=\"en\">Senior White House aide Rob Porter physically assaulted two ex-wives, they tell <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/theintercept?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@theintercept<\/a>. Full story to come in the morning. <\/p>\n<p>His first wife, Colbie Holderness, provided these photos from a vacation they took together in Florence, Italy: <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/tl3TbyGA8Y\">pic.twitter.com\/tl3TbyGA8Y<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Ryan Grim (@ryangrim) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ryangrim\/status\/961130828804902913?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">February 7, 2018<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>It\u2019s (probably) true that the Trump White House didn\u2019t have these photographs when they hired Porter \u2014 who\u2019d been chief of staff to Utah Sen. Orrin Hatch, a conservative icon \u2014 for the critical behind-the-scenes job of staff secretary to the president, working closely with chief of staff John Kelly to control the flow of important people and paperwork into the Oval Office.<\/p>\n<p>But they knew.<\/p>\n<p>They knew that the FBI had interviewed Porter\u2019s ex-wives while conducting their background check and was refusing to grant him a security clearance \u2014 something that you\u2019d think would be essential for an aide shuttling sensitive and sometimes top-secret paperwork onto the commander in chief\u2019s desk. And, according to reports quoting unnamed administration officials, they almost certainly knew more than that \u2014 keeping with Porter\u2019s ex-girlfriend\u2019s warning that many in Washington knew were aware of his abuse, and yet he continued to rise.<\/p>\n<p>They knew, and when <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-5365169\/Woman-living-Hope-Hicks-lover-Rob-Porter-abused.html\" target=\"_blank\">journalists from the Daily Mail<\/a> and then <a href=\"https:\/\/theintercept.com\/2018\/02\/07\/rob-porter-wives-abuse-trump-aide\/\" target=\"_blank\">other news orgs<\/a> began calling, their first response was practically Nixonian in their desire to stonewall, lie, cover up, and pray that the story would somehow go away \u2014 anything not to deal with the reality of a serial wife-beater in the corridors of American power.<\/p>\n<p>In a cruel irony in a presidency that has practically trademarked the phrase \u201ccruel irony,\u201d communications director Hope Hicks \u2014 who is widely reported to be Porter\u2019s current girlfriend \u2014 was enlisted to draft over-the-top statements of support. None was more tone-deaf than the initial reaction from Kelly, who was once falsely touted by Beltway access journalists as \u201cthe adult\u201d who would save Trump\u2019s presidency. Instead, the retired Marine general sounded more like the brainwashed hero of <em>The Manchurian Candidate.<\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/OIiOXff8A5Y\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>\u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/entry\/john-kelly-rob-porter-abuse-allegations_us_5a7b691ae4b0c6726e0edd46\" target=\"_blank\">Rob Porter is a man of true integrity and honor and I can\u2019t say enough good things about him<\/a>,\u201d read the initial statement from Kelly. \u201cHe is a friend, a confidante, and a trusted professional. I am proud to serve alongside him.\u201d White House press secretary Sarah Sanders also defended Porter as someone who\u2019s been \u201ceffective\u201d in his job, as if that wipes away the mounting evidence of spousal abuse and what should be disgust at the gross immorality that comes attached to that. It was only after the release of the Florence photos and after Porter had resigned his White House job that Kelly raced out a second, dead-of-night statement that he was \u201cshocked,\u201d that this wasn\u2019t the Rob Porter he knew.<\/p>\n<p>You could make the case that the photos were the incontrovertible proof that the White House needed, but in reality Kelly and company had long had enough evidence to keep this wife-beater out of the Oval Office. No, the import of the photos was that it made it impossible for the Trump White House to perform that one task that it truly excels at: lying.<\/p>\n<p>This all happened just as I was becoming alarmed that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.philly.com\/philly\/blogs\/attytood\/trump-fatigue-snl-jessica-chastain-whatever-20180125.html\" target=\"_blank\">Trump Fatigue Syndrome was getting the better of me<\/a>. In the hours before the Porter scandal broke, the president had channeled his Inner Mussolini into calling Democrats \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2018\/02\/05\/politics\/trump-speech-treason\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\">treasonous<\/a>\u201d for not applauding him during the recent State of the Union while word leaked of<a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/politics\/trumps-marching-orders-to-the-pentagon-plan-a-grand-military-parade\/2018\/02\/06\/9e19ca88-0b55-11e8-8b0d-891602206fb7_story.html?utm_term=.1681eeaf5da8\" target=\"_blank\"> his determination to hold a massive military parade in Washington<\/a> that probably (if it ever indeed happens) <a href=\"http:\/\/nymag.com\/daily\/intelligencer\/2018\/02\/north-koreas-military-parade-comes-at-a-bad-time-for-trump.html\" target=\"_blank\">won\u2019t be much different from the dictatorial glory of the military parade for North Korea\u2019s Kim Jong Un that just happened TODAY<\/a>.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\" xml:lang=\"en\">North Korea just held a massive military parade ahead of the Olympics in South Korea, showcasing missiles, tanks and thousands of troops <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/g8trUngl77\">https:\/\/t.co\/g8trUngl77<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/TBCj8oQPlR\">pic.twitter.com\/TBCj8oQPlR<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 CNN (@CNN) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/CNN\/status\/961620842936504320?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">February 8, 2018<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Each one of these developments sparked the same level of outrage as when Trump trashed our democratic norms in the first year of his tragic presidency, but also brought on more recent feelings of despair and exhaustion. The horrifying pictures released by Colbie Holderness are a reminder, though, and why we must always document evil, and never get too exhausted to speak out against it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"pullquote\">&#8220;This house of cards is convinced that it will collapse with any acknowledgment that harassment, abuse, violence and all the other hallmarks of a decadent patriarchy <a href=\"http:\/\/www.philly.com\/philly\/columnists\/will_bunch\/sexual-harassment-trump-cosby-roy-moore-louis-c-k-harvey-weinstein-the-2017-revolution-no-one-saw-coming-the-end-of-patriarchy-will-bunch-20171112.html\" target=\"_blank\">are finally fueling a political and social revolution in this country<\/a>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>John Kelly needs to resign or be fired. The glare of the White House has exposed what Kelly managed to hide beneath his Marine uniform during a long and often distinguished military career \u2014 his tired and at times offensive views on gender, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/news\/morning-mix\/wp\/2018\/02\/07\/lazy-john-kelly-simply-misses-the-mark-say-daca-advocates\/?utm_term=.b25676c038f5\" target=\"_blank\">on immigration<\/a> and what it means to be a good American. They are dangerous ideas that very much dovetail with the racism and misogyny of his new boss, Donald Trump \u2014 for whom Gen. Kelly has been a happy foot soldier.<a href=\"http:\/\/www.philly.com\/philly\/columnists\/will_bunch\/how-can-kelly-save-trump-when-he-was-a-human-rights-disaster-at-homeland-security-20170806.html\" target=\"_blank\"> I\u2019d warned way back in August, in this space, that Kelly had already shown he is not a good person<\/a>, after ICE (Immigration and Customs Enforcement) and Border Patrol morphed into a national secret police during his brief time at Homeland Security. His departure probably won\u2019t make the Trump White House a better place, but it will allow us to cling to the notion that there is left some sense of decency in America\u2019s numbed political consciousness.<\/p>\n<p>But let\u2019s be clear about something else: Kelly\u2019s departure won\u2019t erase the stain of toxic masculinity that Donald Trump\u2019s presidency has splashed across the American psyche. This is a government that was literally created in a stew of misogyny that simmered when a qualified woman finally won her party\u2019s presidential nomination, and then boiled over in denial that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/us-news\/ng-interactive\/2017\/nov\/30\/donald-trump-sexual-misconduct-allegations-full-list\" target=\"_blank\">a serial sexual predator was her chosen opponent<\/a>. This house of cards is convinced that it will collapse with any acknowledgment that harassment, abuse, violence and all the other hallmarks of a decadent patriarchy <a href=\"http:\/\/www.philly.com\/philly\/columnists\/will_bunch\/sexual-harassment-trump-cosby-roy-moore-louis-c-k-harvey-weinstein-the-2017-revolution-no-one-saw-coming-the-end-of-patriarchy-will-bunch-20171112.html\" target=\"_blank\">are finally fueling a political and social revolution in this country<\/a>. Witness, for example, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vox.com\/policy-and-politics\/2018\/1\/27\/16939880\/steve-wynn-sexual-misconduct-republicans-gop-trump\" target=\"_blank\">how slowly the Republican Party has reacted to the sexual-assault allegations against its former finance chair, Steve Wynn<\/a>. And now we\u2019ve seen that taken to its ugliest extreme, with Soviet-style denial of a wife-beater with an all-access pass into the Oval Office.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m actually optimistic that the misogynistic follies of Team Trump are the last throes of a dying social regime. But the final days can get ugly \u2014 and the horrific images of Rob Porter\u2019s abuses and the shame of yet another White House cover-up should compel us to action. It\u2019s been 384 exhausting days of Donald Trump\u2019s presidency, and there are probably worse days to come. But Colbie Holderness\u2019 photos remind us that silence is never an option.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"http:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><br \/>\n<b>Via <a href=\"https:\/\/www.commondreams.org\/views\/2018\/02\/09\/timesup-john-kelly-and-toxic-masculinity-trumps-white-house\">Common Dreams<\/a>. This piece was reprinted by <a href=\"http:\/\/rinf.com\">RINF Alternative News<\/a> with permission or license.<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Just 14 months ago, both of the women who\u2019d once been married to Rob Porter got horrifying Facebook messages and texts from a third woman who said she was now dating Porter \u2014 a top GOP Capitol Hill aide on a path toward the Trump White House \u2014 and wanted to talk to them about [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":347641,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[519],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-347640","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-newswire"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/347640","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=347640"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/347640\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/347641"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=347640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=347640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rinf.com\/alt-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=347640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}